The importance of how things are communicated.

It took me 3 years to realize that no one belongs to us more than ourselves. Our dreams, our emotions, our frustrations, our hearts, and our memories. Why put our peace in someone else's hands? When you can get up every day and decide what to feel like in every outfit you'll wear. It is a challenge? is.

I have tried to do this every day, and over time it becomes a habit. Get up, give thanks, and propose that you have a good day, and that bad days are your decision, to be with yourself and not the decision of others.

“The more freedom you give me, the more I will be attached to you. Free loves have more desire to stay.”

And life takes so many turns, when you propose to change, improve and forgive yourself, it gives you the opportunity to do it in the same place where you had made bad decisions... how much does it cost to forgive yourself? It has cost me 10,529 km, and there is a lot of happiness involved. My friend's window in Amsterdam, the rains, the supermarket, the bike, the nights, the beers, the long conversations with Felipe after 9 months, the best reunion with Ziemek after 2 years, miss someone again, want to tell about my trip to Ca. The times I thought I would stay forever in a place that was home, how prepared are we for change? How much does it cost us to adapt to them? When I was 25 years old, it was here that I had my most painful breakup of love obsession, with the best person I could ever know. Today, this person not only makes me proud of who he is but also gives me the strength to believe in new beginnings when everything seems to fall apart, one day you stop remembering with pain and start thinking about yourself, what you are, what you are worth and what you want. Are you so little to accept little? Why do we keep demanding love where there is none? In my experience, I was not ready to deal with reality. That will never be love, it is easier to look back and return to the same thing than to change paths, thanks to the person who has forced me to do it.

To the person who helped me improve my words, to think about my partner, friends, and family, to talk to people the way I like them to talk to me, to give a healthy love that is the least that should ever be asked for.

If you tell them your version, they will support you. If you tell the truth, they will help you. I will never forget this.